Born to be Change蜕变

By Vicco Wu

The phoenix was born of fire,and turn to athanasy; the caterpillar degenerates several times, and turn to butterflies; the ugly ducking suffers a lot, and turn to pretty goose － metamorphosis, the magical power in the nature. Being a human, metamorphosis of soul, such a wonderful progress!

The phoenix is spirit animal in lagend, as the happiness messenger in the world, every five hundreds, the phoenix will sacrifice with anger and envy in fire. The end of life and beauty brings peace and happiness to the world. The phoenix is reborn after the incredible suffering. Nirvana of the phoenix is holy and pure, the reborn is splendid.

Eagle, as the most long-live bird, its life can continue to more than 70 years. However, eagle should make a tough decision when it is 40 years. Because of the aging talons, the bent mouth and dense feather, it has two choices to decide its life. To die or to get 150 days metamorphosis. The eagle has to fly to top of mountain, and nesting on cliff. Flying and hitting the rocks, until the bad mouth dies out, then waiting for the new mouth. Eagle uses the new mouth to pull the fingernails out one by one, after the new fingernails come out, it use the fingers to pull out the feather. Five mouths later, a brand new eagle back to the sky.

The rebirth of life, fresh and wonderful. Whatever it is the complete change, or the decorate change, they are beautiful. People can not change their bodies like the phoenix and the eagle. But our heart change during the growing time.

There are always something stop us during our life time, and we have to learn how to ignore and give up. We try to use our new-born power to fix our shortcomings, to enhance a wider world, to break through the old image, and to being stronger.

The rebirth of soul is full of love. Looking back every progress, we were born for love, grows for love, takes responsibility for love. If getting into society is the mark for independence, then the marriage is the rebirth for adultness.

The beauty of marriage is about hope and expectation. No matter who you are, you are waiting for the magic moment. It means a new life to start and the circle of destiny.

The metamorphosis of soul can not be complete in one day, listening to your heart, judging your minds, thinking for every steps, all these are preparing for a brand new future. Like the last sentence in If Lived Has Deceived You by Pushkin, that which passes will be dear.

凤凰浴火重生，化为不死神鸟；毛虫几经蜕化，最终化作美蝶；丑小鸭历经万难，成为纯洁的天鹅——蜕变，是自然界最为神奇的力量！生而为人，心灵的蜕变，同样那么美妙！

凤凰是传说中的灵兽，作为人世间幸福的使者，每隔五百年，它就要背负累存于世的所有仇恨与恩怨，投身于熊熊烈火自焚，以生命和美丽的终结换取世间的幸福与祥和。在肉体经受了巨大的痛苦之后，凤凰才能得以更绚烂的躯体得以轮回重生。凤凰的涅磐无比圣洁，凤凰的重生灿烂异常。

世界上最为长寿的鸟类——鹰，它的一生可达七十多岁。但在它四十岁时，必须做出一个艰难的决定，因为此时鹰的爪子已经开始老化，无法抓取猎物，同时它的喙变得又长又弯，几乎碰到胸膛，翅膀也因为又浓又厚的羽毛而越发沉重。等待它的只有两种选择：要么等死，要么就必须经历一个十分痛苦的过程——150天漫长的蜕变。它必须努力地飞到山顶，在悬崖上筑巢。不停地飞翔，用喙击打岩石，直到喙完全脱落，然后静静等候新喙的长成。接着，它要用新长出的喙，把指甲一根一根拔除。新指甲长出后，最后把羽毛也一根一根拔掉。五个月后，新羽长齐，鹰将重新翱翔于天际。

生命的蜕变，精彩而炫目。无论是脱胎换骨式的蜕变，剥去自身丑陋外衣的蜕变，还是去除身上束缚的蜕变，都是美好的。人无法像凤凰、老鹰一般，经受躯体痛苦的蜕变，却同样在岁月中经历着心灵的蜕变。

每个人在成长过程中，总会遇到一些阻碍我们长大的东西，我们需要舍得抛弃、懂得忍痛割爱，摒弃身上的缺点错误，褪除那些影响我们的物质与思想，用自己新生的力量去填补它。冲破束缚，突破自我，不再囿于狭小的空间，去寻找更为广阔的天空，历经坎坷之后，就会变得越来越强。

心灵的蜕变不全是痛苦的，却几乎都是美好的。回望每一个生命的过程，从呱呱坠地到牙牙学语，从依偎在父母的怀抱到蹒跚学步，从莘莘学子到面对社会的洗礼，我们因为爱而生，因为爱而滋润，因为爱而成长，因为爱而懂得承担责任。如果说踏上社会是蜕变成独立个体的标志，那么因为爱情而步入婚姻殿堂则是蜕变为成熟的一个瞬间。

婚姻的美好，在于它承载着所有的梦想、希冀、期待与祝福，无论你是平凡人家的女儿，还是含着金钥匙降生的女继承人，都会对这一天的到来抱持着同等的希望，即使当年华老去，那一刻的悸动都是无法磨灭的。当铅华落尽，一个新生命在身体里慢慢孕育，生命的轮回将重新开始。

心灵的蜕变不是一朝一夕的事情，需要沉下心来悉心酝酿。向内自我审视，不断挑剔自己，在取与舍之间纠葛着徘徊，有时痛苦，有时纠结，有时迷惘，有时决绝，一切的一切都是为了未来美好的新生。过程是痛苦而艰辛的，回味总是甘美而香醇的。这让我不由想起普希金那首脍炙人口的《假如生活欺骗了你》的最后两句——“而那过去了的，终将成为美好”！

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